It’s been brought to my attention that many of my accounts of Jordan so far have not always reflected the country in a positive light. Do I not like it here? I’ve been asked. Is it so bad? People wonder. Sure, I’ve written about the crazy traffic, the difficulties of language barriers and the generalities of adjusting to a new home and a new culture. These are the things that are easiest to describe, because it’s the difficulties that make for interesting reading. Who wants to hear that I’m fine and things are fine and nothing is difficult?? (Ok, besides my mother…?)
It wouldn’t be much of an adventure if there weren’t obstacles to overcome.
Regardless, I’ve decided it’s about time I put the debate to rest and clear the air. I, in fact, DO like it here. I’m having a wonderful time and the adjustment is going smoothly. To prove it, here’s a list of the things I like about my new home:
1. It’s sunny everyday. While the temperature can still get up into the high 30s, I’ve learned to do as the Jordanians do and avoid being outside at peak temperature time.
2. People are very hospitable and kind. Besides the great help I’ve received from my new friends, I’ve found even strangers on the street are more than willing to go out of their way to assist you - after they've finished staring at you, of course.
3. You can find a taxi anywhere. I have never had to wait more than five minutes to find a taxi. I walk out my door and they’re practically lined up waiting to take me to my destination.
4. Even though I don’t understand the language, I think Arabic music and writing are both beautiful.
5. It’s hot but it’s a dry heat. Escape to some shade and it’s significantly cooler – there’s always some respite from the heat, whereas with humidity the heat sticks to you no matter where you are. And I haven't yet had one frizzy-hair day.
6. It’s a Kingdom with kings, queens, princes and princesses. And the general feeling I get is people are happy with the royal family. Pictures of the king are everywhere and there’s a strong sense of pride when the royal couple appear in the media (like when Queen Rania was on Oprah).
7. In the late afternoon the sky over Jabel Amman and the downtown is filled with kites - one of the most affordable forms of entertainment for the children who live downtown.
8. The food is cheap and delicious.
9. Although the streets are bustling during the day, the streets really come alive in the evening when the temperature cools.
10. People are always thrilled to discover I’m from Canada. They then proceed to tell me about their uncle Abu who lives in Manitoba and they ask me if I know him? One taxi driver actually asked if I could take him with me when I return to Canada. Um, let me think about that one…. NO.
11. Five times a day prayers are called out from the mosque towers across the city. It’s a melodic, atmospheric sound and although I can’t understand what’s being said, it’s moving nonetheless. I’m not such a big fan of the 4 a.m. prayer call though. With a mosque just around the corner from my apartment, it took me a few nights before I stopped jumping out of bed, scared to death with the sound suddenly pouring in through my window.
12. I’ve recently been introduced to dates (the fruit, not the social activity). Can you believe I had never had one? And they’re a wonderfully sweet dried fruit that’ll have to become part of my diet.
13. The distances everywhere are short. You can get across the city in 20 minutes. The Dead Sea is 45 minutes away. Petra is three hours. Aqaba in the far south is five. If anyone ever says a place is far away, I know in Canadian terms it’s not.
14. Any excuse to celebrate and locals are out in the streets honking their horns or setting off fireworks. (I may have jumped out of my skin the first time I was alone at night and heard fireworks going off outside my building. Only they didn’t sound like fireworks… guns more like. I’m sure you can imagine).
15. There’s no lining up at bars to get in. You’re either on the guest list, which you called for a week in advance, or you know the guy at the door and he lets your group in. Ingenious. Of course I love it cause our group is always on top of these things. I'm sure if I was alone, with no connections I'd never get into a bar anywhere.